Celebrate...

Happy 4th to all in the U S of A!  And to my Candian friends... Happy Canada Day and 150th birthday as well!  Be safe as you enjoy precious time with friends and family cooking out, cheering on the fireworks and being thankful for all the freedoms we enjoy.

I wanted to alert you to a terrific set of articles in the July 2017 issue of Writer's Digest.  The theme of the issue was "Crafting Better Characters." They zeroed in on four topics:   Good, Evil and In-between, 10 Techniques to Add Authenticity, the Power of POV, and Too Many Players.

In discussions I've had with agents and writers, they have always brought up the fact that if the characters in your manuscript don't draw them in, they're not interested in the book, no matter how good a writer you may be.  In other words, they said, "why do I care about this character?"  These are the cardboard cutout characters that we all write about, but why would the reader care about a character that a whisper of wind could blow over?

I've written characters like this ... the height, the hair and eye color, maybe her job, the scene setting (which I'm really good at) --  yet not tapping into their core feelings as they move from one scene to another.  What I've learned in my workshop this year was to close my eyes and become that character, to see what she sees and feel what she feels - good or bad.  It's not easy to lose yourself in someone else, and sometimes I find it exhausting.  In one of my manuscripts, I have a character who is being stalked by someone... she has no idea who he is or why he's following her.  He shadows her at the beach when she is alone... she feels him, but can't see him.  When she's in a group, she wonders if he's there, one of the men?  Feeling her fear and witing it so the reader feels it is the key to this story.

This issue of WD also had a great article on what's the correct number of characters who need to live in your story.  I tend to write with too few, I think.  Sometimes, I feel that my character needs a confidant, someone she can tell her secrets to.  I end up adding a childhood friend, college roommate ... someone she trusts and cares about.  For my male characters, it usually shows up as a sister, brother, or brother-in-law.  I love finding these people and making them come to life :-)

I thought that a little writing task might help us to develop better characters.  We all listen to music and feel different things when certain songs come on. It's that feeling that I want you to capture... those random thoughts that go through your mind, those memories....  For my male readers/writers, I'd like you to listen to Blake Shelton's "Every time I hear that song" and write a page about who it makes you think of, what do you feel and why.  You don't have to show it to anyone, but write those raw feelings down.  For my female readers/writers, how about Little Big Town's "A Better Man."  We have all had atleast one and maybe more men in our lives who have disappointed us, broken our hearts, ... share those feelings.  Writing this page might help you develop characters that feel happiness, sadness, cry, laugh, and are real 3-D people.  I bet your readers would start to care about them.  Try it, I think you will discover something very important about your writing.

Till,
Judi

To all our Dads...

Copyrighted 2016 Judi Getch

This is dedicated to my Dad.  The words to describe what his loss means to me... they just aren't there.  Oh but for five more minutes with him...

Excerpt from "Safe Harbors" published in Ocean Magazine 2012...

“I looked down at my father’s casket.  He had always been there for me – my whole life. I talked – he listened; I cried – he comforted; I lost my way – he guided me back.  One minute he was there, the next minute he was gone. 

Someone softly spoke my name; I turned wiping the tears from my face – an embrace, a word of sympathy, a kiss on the cheek. 

I heard only the hum of the priest’s words at the grave, “May he rest in peace… let us pray for him.” 

I stood there in a daze. Someone took my hand, kissed my cheek, moved on to my sisters and my mother. The mourners milled around and then softly made their way to their cars until our family stood there, alone.  I pulled a pink rose from a floral arrangement and placed it on my father's casket, placed my fingers on my lips and laid them next to the rose.  My final goodbye kiss.  I turned, hollow eyed and empty, making my way back to the black limousine.  My only thought,

 What would I do now?  He had been in my life forever…

The wind whipped my hair against my face as I pulled the collar of my coat tighter around my neck.  My ears stung and my eyes teared.  It always felt much colder here as winter approached.  The dampness of the water, I guessed.  Most of the boats in the harbor were gone now.

It was November 5th, my father’s birthday.  I had been struggling since August, when he died, to put my life back on course.  He had always said, “If you need me, you’ll find me by the ocean,” so here I was, by the ocean, and in desperate need of him. 

I stood looking across the lonely empty harbor, bracing myself against the cold, icy wind.  It looked the same as it did when I was a child.  I closed my eyes and could see us, my two sisters and myself, running up the sand dunes, screaming and pointing at horseshoe crabs, throwing the beach ball, toasting marshmallows over the fire, laughing; my mother sitting on the blanket, leaning back on her arms, her face in the sun, a smile on her lips; my father, dripping from his swim, running to the blanket and spraying her with water.  He bent over and kissed her playfully.  I saw myself floating on a blown up inner tube, watching my parents on the shore.  Suddenly, I slipped through the hole in center.  Down I went under the water, valiantly trying to reach the surface when suddenly a strong pair of hands grabbed me and lifted me out of the water into the sunshine as I gulped for air.  Coughing and sputtering, I rubbed my stinging eyes. 

“You’re safe” he said as he hugged me.  “I’ll always keep you safe, I promise” he whispered in my ear. 

He always kept his promises I realized standing there.  He had given me the strength and courage to cope with whatever obstacles life laid at my feet.  And with tears in my eyes, I smiled knowing that this was where I would always come to replenish my soul and mend my heart.  This was where I could always find the rhythm of my life.”

Reflections....

Emmanuel College copyrighted by Judi Getch June 2017

Fenway Park copyrighted Judi Getch June 2017

Well, I thought things would slow down when I stopped traveling, but Alumni Weekend was upon me before I knew it.

Being part of the Board, we act as ambassadors spending many wonderful moments trading stories with Alums both younger and older.  It was not a reunion weekend for me, but it was for other classes like my sister's.   I wore her class ring and sought out her class members to tell them that she had died two years ago.   They told of the fun they had had with her at the previous reunion.  I met a woman on the Fenway Tour (which I supported) who had known her when she had been a Dean.  It seemed that everywhere I turned there was a whisper of her.

Copyrighted Judi Getch 2017

And then, Saturday night, as they set up for dinner, out came the center pieces... Fiona from the book that I had written and dedicated to my sister!  There Fiona sat on each table with her family in a bottle.  I don't believe in coincidences... so thank you to my dear sister for letting me know that she was near.

I feel so energized when I return to campus.  I have good and not so good memories as all of us do.  For me, I had a tough major and minor - Math and Physics, complicated by taking extra classes to obtain my teaching certificate.  Spare time was at a minimum, but, in spite of all the studying, I managed to squeeze in some time for fun - dances, spring break in Bermuda, proms, dates...  and even a bit of writing for the newspaper.  Friends came and went as did boyfriends.  Then, graduation appeared on the horizon.  For all of us, a new chapter of our lives stood before us and each of us took that leap of faith that we would land on our feet and do great things.  Coming back to campus gives us a chance to admit how that leap lived up to our expectations.  I personally had no idea what I would do... I just clung to that piece of paper that I had earned and jumped into life delaying graduate school for a few years.  

Having fit all my practice teaching into vacations senior year, I obtained my teaching certificate, but knew that teaching was not what I wanted to do,   When I took a position as a mathematician on a space project, I had found a home... initially designing and implementing software for every kind of application imaginable, and many that you couldn't imagine. :-)

When I return home to my college each year, I'm grateful to my parents for instilling in me the worth of an education, to those tough years within the ivy covered walls that instilled in me a love of learning and service, for the confidence that my parents and this college gave me so that I could compete in a man's world, and for instilling in me a drive to set my feet upon a trail that at times was hard and untraveled, but that produced the best life and career ever.   Thank you to all those who have passed through my life and left their mark upon me.

Having shared my feeling from this weekend, I hope you all are gathering from life what you need to interject into your writing... hope, gladness, sorrow and sadness.  Gather these feelings into your writing basket and continue on... remember, there are no second chances.  Choose wisely, look backwards only to learn lessons not to wish to change events, and keep moving forward.

More on my writing next time... the French manuscript is progressing pretty well :-)  The research has been fun :-)

Till,
Judi